A suggestion left as a comment on Down On My Knees:
While you are down at Home Depot maybe pickup one of those circular wire and bristle-type toilet-bowl brushes. The wire can be bent by hand to accomodate any size or provide any amount of tension. A new one will at still be clean and fairly sanitary. And the experience of hundreds of strong bristles being forced over your cock might resolve your search for a bristle device.
Nazisploitation; the use of Nazi imagery in BDSM fantasies, erotica, porn and scenes.
The most controversial appearance of Nazi imagery in BDSM erotica is the Stalag Femdom novels read by Israeli men typically featuring female Gestapo sadists. Some of this appeared in the American’s men’s adventure magazine market in magazines like True. But depictions of male Nazis torturing women were more common.
The latter has been a common feature in S&M porn.
As were gay male sadomasochistic novels.
Some Jewish men seek partners willing to enact concentration camp scenarios with them. Because of the extreme sense of shame of participating in such this is one of the most buried parts of BDSM. The reality of the holocaust causes such scenes to trouble normally hardcore sadists and masochists because it brings to mind some of the most horrific events in 20th century history.
Movies (always awful) include Ilsa - She Wolf of the SS and Elsa Fraulein SS. List of Nazisploitation DVDs
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I absolutely will never do breath-play. It is the number one cause of death in BDSM play.
Yes, I know people do it safely: but it is beyond my tolerance of risk. Even without fatality there’s too much danger of brain damage: I’m meat, not a vegetable.
An ABC News article cites:
A Canadian college professor spent three days in a coma over the weekend after losing consciousness in a New York sex club where he was left alone with a dog collar around his neck and a leather hood over his face, according to a report in the New York Post.
And a report that reminds me of the accidental suicide of underground cartoonist Vaughn Bode:
Last October, a medical examiner determined that the Rev. Gary Aldridge, a 51-year-old Baptist minister from Alabama, died from accidental asphyxiation while pleasuring himself. He was found wearing two wet suits, a face mask, diving gloves, slippers, rubberized underwear, two ties, five belts and eleven straps, according to the medical examiner’s report.
In April 2006, British national Adrian Exley suffocated to death in the closet of a Rhode Island man whom he had met online. Exley was wrapped tightly in heavy plastic and bound with duct tape, and a leather hood was over his head.
And there’ve been cases where an experienced professional dominatrix was in the room.
Man Spends Three Days in a Coma After Kinky Sex - but Unsafe Play Can Result in Death
(Posted as a comment on one of my blogs.
As promised now I have some time and have compiled a brief list of some of my favorite techniques for inflicting nipple pain, both autoerotic and administered by some one else. I have had all these techniques applied to my own nipples.
Clothes Pegs/Pins
I’ll start with Pressure and clamping as this was and still is I guess my favorite. As mentioned by one of the other correspondents to this site, clothes pegs are a perennial favorite. They are cheap and easy to use. The pain can be easily controlled from a back ground ache to reasonably intense. They can be worn unnoticed under loose clothing and importantly, if you have a squeamish partner they are a benign way to introduce her into this delightful realm of nipple pain/torture.
I’ve found that the secret is the closer you get to the tip of the nipple the more pain is produced and for me the more excitement and arousal. Plus you can use more than one on a nipple, one at the base on one on the tip. Mmmmmm that’s good and it’s simple!
Of course there are many different types of clothes pegs/pins on the market. I have a range of different types in my collection
An interesting variation is to have an 18 inch piece of string tied/taped to the peg and attached to a weight (shoe, pliers, anything in fact) clamp the peg to you nipple, holding the weight in your hand close to your chest. Bend over and then drop the weight. Oh boy, if the pain you get doesn’t make you even harder – ask for your money back. If you have a willing partner the variations are endless, aren’t they?
Alligator/Crocodile Clips
These are available at any electronics or electrical store and come in various sizes. They can be used in similar ways to the clothes pegs and can be easily modified with a pair of long nose pliers to suit all sorts of tolerances.
Two of my favorite techniques are to have a pair joined by 12 to 15 inches of electrical cable and so that one goes on each nipple with the cable strung between. This allows the application of weights and other types of pulling devices.
One I like is to have the harness’ attached while I’m driving and have a weight on a chain of rubber bands thread through the steering wheel so that it pulls while I drive. Very stimulating, but potentially distracting.
The other is to have a weight on a long string looped over a door handle and attached to the centre of the ‘harness’ pulling your nipples out from your body. You can pull against it or just let gravity do the work for you. Either is good. A bonus is that it leaves both your hands free for other activities.
The other is simply just to have one clip per nipple and have fishing weights attached. I’ve walked around shopping centers like this (Loose Shirts a must) for 20 plus minutes. The tugging and swaying on my nipples from the walking hurts like hell and turns me on so much I just have to get to the car ASAP.
I will say that at first these clips on virgin nipples are YEOW!! Then I started to count to 10 before removing them, then 50, 100 etc. until I had them on for over 40 minutes. That was usually driving the car or doing house work. Removing them was an experience the blood flowing into the crushed flesh burned all over again. I get tingles just thinking about it.
Oh, I like to have them attached longitudinally, i.e. straight out along my nipple. And if you’re wearing them under a shirt it applies and additional interesting pressure.
Tying Up.
I love having my nipples tied up with some strong thin string at the base. Turning them into little balloons. This then allows you to use other weights etc. Personally I love them being tight like this when I “abrade” them or stick pins into them. The skin is tighter and it just feels so much more positive.
My tied nipples don’t have the ‘give’ a loose one has. So the feeling is great.
Other Things.As I said your imagination is your only limit. A random list of things you can use to clamp your nipples are vice grip pliers G-clamps wood and rubber bands freezer bag sealing clips – medical clamps etc, the list is endless.
In the next few days I’ll add info on number 2 Abrasion. Another easy and effective technique though it can get a little bloody
Submission: the power exchange orientation to surrender to another’s control.
Beware people who babble away about “true submission.” Submission is offered in many different modes and manners and to various degrees.
Some people submit only as a form of erotic play and the submission ends with the scene. At the other end there are those who want every detail of their life subject to another’s decisions. And myriad points in between.
If you are inexperienced it may take time for you to discern what kind and level of submission is appropriate for you. Don’t let a self-appointed master or mistress or self-appointed submissive person bully you into behavior that is bad for you.
The Humbler is a testicle bondage device.
Most often made of wood but sometimes of steel or even plastic it consists of two hinged sections. The bulk of the mechanism is two curved ends that fit snugly against the back of a man’s thighs. The scrotal sac is thrust through an aperture in the center. Ideally when the humbler is locked the man is unable to stand up because of the stress placed on his testicles.
The length of the scrotal sac may render this toy useless because the humbler will just hang loose.
Some people use two plastic clothes hangers of the right shape to create their own inexpensive DIY humbler.
Bottom: the person who takes direction from the top.
The advantage of the term is that it escapes the baggage brought to words like submissive or slave. A person may act as a bottom in only specialized or limited contexts and ways according to their needs.
In gay male relationships it is often used without implications of power exchange for a sex partner who is anally penetrated.
As with most labels it requires qualification to have useful meaning.
Top: the person in charge, leading, directing controlling the scene.
The advantage of the term is its neutrality, minimal cultural assumptions about the role. E.g., some tops are pure sadists with no interest in dominance as such.
In gay male relationships it is often used without implications of power exchange for a sex partner who performs anal penetration.
As with most labels it requires qualification to have useful meaning.
Femsub: diminuative of female submissive.
While some find the term cute others would agree only in the sense of painfully cute.
Curious Punishments of Bygone Days by Alice Morse Earle
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