About

I see that Google has discovered this site so I might as well admit that it exists.

The goal of BDSM Reference is mostly to provide pointers to specialized BDSM instruction and advice resources. But also whatever sort of kinky lore and trivia appeals to me that for some reason I don’t put on my main personal site.

I’m under no illusions; I’m hundreds of entries away from this actually being a reference. One day I’ll find a collaborator or manage to go through mitosis myself.