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Bottom: the person who takes direction from the top.

The advantage of the term is that it escapes the baggage brought to words like submissive or slave. A person may act as a bottom in only specialized or limited contexts and ways according to their needs.

In gay male relationships it is often used without implications of power exchange for a sex partner who is anally penetrated.

As with most labels it requires qualification to have useful meaning.

Richard | January 14, 2008 •
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    justine : i like resistance play too. i have been called a sam and this feeds those needs. i know
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    Richard : Thanks, your explanation is really appreciated.
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  • Masochismo - rellor : I am always seeking out real time scenes where I push to have my limits explored...I guess
    roo-roo : Having your limits pushed can be an amazing experience. For me, it's the opposite of rell
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