Masochismo

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Masochismo denotes BDSM activities that have the aim of challenging and perhaps extended a bottom’s physical and emotional limits. The word was coined by Sadie Damascus and used by Janet Hardy in some of her BDSM guides.

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I like the sound of that :)

I am always seeking out real time scenes where I push to have my limits explored…I guess that’s a machismo thing. In my last session my Mistress was about to release me from the horse after caning my ass and I begged her to whip my back. I was certainly hurting from the caning (and the electroshock treatment before that) but I just felt I could take more and wanted her to carry on. She responded by suspending me ‘X’ style and flogging my back and front but stopped despite my begging her to go on..I wanted to prove I could take more. Perhaps she knew best?

Having your limits pushed can be an amazing experience. For me, it’s the opposite of rellor’s story though- I want her to stop, but she keeps going, pushing me harder and further than I thought I could go. My mind (and sometimes my lips) is saying “no, please, stop this!” but afterward, I sometimes get a great headspace. On top of that, I feel it brings us closer together when we share experiences like this. It seems to reinforce the power exchange and just makes me feel happy when sitting there in the afterglow.

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My thanks,
Richard

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